5 points strategy to Grow Exponential in Life

Grow Average OR grow Exponential – It all depends on How fast you Escape Velocity !

Let us see what is Time Zone in context to Success

Wonder why some people get ahead in life with almost equal IQ and identical talent, with that of others ? The answer is, ‘They used their  time zone, while most people were relaxing they were working’

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The concept of Time Zone:

It is simple to understand that we all are living in a particular time zone. For example your birth year the year you were born, along with you many others must have born, and hence all of you are part of a specific time zone. It is logical to assume that all must have got the same environment, resources and almost same facilities to grow barring some exceptions.

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Plus, considering the fact that time zone shifts every five year (any revolution be it industrial or financial, or even political, that happens on an average every five years). So more or less all those who born in a particular year, are equal recipients of the resources for next five years.Than why some individuals become extra ordinarily successful compare to others of the same time zone ?

Secrets of Success:

  • Those individuals who have grown exponentially, must have done exponential hard work and efforts during their frozen time zone.
  • They must have non-diluted passion or focus through out their journey.
  • While all average individuals were ‘flowing’ like a twig, automatically migrating from place to place; these hardworking individuals must have ensured that they separate themselves from twig to worthy humans.
  • They must have put in great efforts without expecting instant returns.

 

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5 points strategy for Success:

  1. Define your existing time zone and see have you enough worked to ‘Escape Velocity’ (Escaping Velocity means to overcome hurdles and obstacles that pull you down).
  2. Identify your core passion, without which you can’t think of your existence.
  3. Calculate the actual time left to create massive pull to Escape Velocity. Means to figure out how much time you can devote to live your passion.
  4. Failures will be essentially on your way, but remember you are into ‘Relative Time Zone’ effect, and hence everybody must have been passed through this ups and down cycle.
  5. There is always going to be provocation to leave your passion mid-way, but remind you that you want to create a pull to escape velocity of your Relative Time Zone.

 

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Overcoming Social Phobia

What is Social phobia?

We as humans have always been social animals. We prefer to live in habitat. We usually find people with similarity in lifestyle, food habits, and similar choices. We make friends, we play together, stay together and share joy, and pain together. This eventually give birth to large societies. It can be further divided into religions and caste etc. But we are largely social animals.

But there are a few who prefer to stay alone, avoid mixing in the groups and tend to be less social. They will avoid situations where they are part of a group. Sometimes it is normal to be such selective, however If it is a regular routine of your life than chances are higher that you might developing social phobia.

 

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Some of the symptoms of Social Phobia

  • Prefer to stay alone for longer period
  • Hating the company of people
  • Living in own world of dreams all through the day and night
  • Avoid attending social gatherings such as marriages and other such gatherings.
  • Always look for escaping the groups and meetings.

How to overcome the social phobia

There are of course two ways to tackle this problem. Firstly, one should consult a psychologist and get treated. Second is for people who are at the border of the phobia can do self-counselling.

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Following are the key recommendations:

  1. Start trusting people (It has been observed that people with social phobia are usually not trusting). Believe that no one is there to harm you.
  2. Share your inner worries and fear with your friend and keep habit of sharing, slowly gradually make more friends.
  3. Develop self-confidence about your personality and have positive outlook about yourself.
  4. Keep yourself open to embrace new people and do a small self-talk before attending a social event.
  5. Do a small self pep-up talk before stepping out for social meetings.
  6. Accept there are different types of people and all are unique and so you too.

Things to avoid:

  1. Avoid being negative about any episode or person
  2. Stop being sarcastic about social system, fashion trends, people and their habits.
  3. Stop pampering yourself more than required.
  4. Avoid being too harsh or pushy about your opinion and views, remember views can be different
  5. Stop judging people’s intention and behavior.
  6. Do not run away from difficult situation, just do not run away.

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How to Choose Right Career?

 

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Most often we end up choosing the career which perhaps not the right one. We simply go for something because we have been told to do so, or may be under influence of the visible glory of the particular job.

Softskills at times can come to your help. If we know the decision making skill.

Career selection has always been a stressful event. If we look back in our own life, many of us would feel the career that they have opted for currently could have been different if someone would have guided properly, or at least some help should have been there.

This is even becoming more critical as the competition is increasing, more and more parents are pushing their kids to select the best career and they even end up spending huge money to secure that ‘best’ career. While many can sail through such turmoil, many others find it so difficult to adjust with unpleasant career. Even if they accept the career, they may not excel in that. The cycle of non-performance will hit them soon.

Let us understand how the whole non-performance cycle works out. There are two friends Rahul and Rohan. They both have studied together in a same school and their track of securing good marks have pushed them to choose a career which is like extremely competitive. Rahul fairs well as he was clear about the choices he made, however, Rohan faced lots of struggle and fall out was he dropped the study mid way and chosen to study something else.He than opted for a course which would get him then high paying jobs. Soon he realise that the job market has changed! By the time he completed his studies, the scenario was different, he somehow got a job and now he is a mediocre employee and always on a look for ‘better’ options.

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Selecting something based on fancy or glory or even out of force will never help you to grow in career. It will create more job related burn-outs. Rohan’s struggle is evident and many like him are facing such issues.

Career decision is the most critical decision for students and professionals, and if chosen a wrong career, one has to end up paying higher price in the later life.

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Teach your child how to value the things

Help your child to show gratitude for the things he/she is receiving.

childAs parents we are always anxious about the weird behaviour of our child. Many parents even complain that their child is not valuing anything that we are giving. Most of the child’s demands are fulfilled instantly, still child does not have a feeling of gratitude  or does not value those things. Do you want your child to develop gratitude and starts valuing the things he is receiving? You need to learn Parenting Skills.

Introduce the concept of ‘work to earn’

child2Work to earn is a concept if your child is trained on this, it will have miraculous effect on his ‘ thankless’ behavior. We as parents are too emotional most of the time and we do not want our child to suffer with a feeling of ‘less’ and so we provide everything that our child demands without saying NO. We sometime stretch financial budget to buy that costly remote control car, which the child will have no value! This leads to feeling of frustration and helplessness. Parenting Skills can help you over come this and many other child related issues.

How to implement ‘Work to Earn’ method

child-3Child can understand simple things and so make work to earn a simple task for the child. Announce a coupon or token system. Each token is properly cut and made of hard grade paper material and should be long lasting (should resonate the value from its look). Each token is let say of $1 or Rs 1.

Important points to remember before implementing the method:

  • Remember the highest denomination of the token will be of $10 or Rs 10.
  • You may prepare three denominations like $1, $5, $10
  • Decide the ‘Task value’ in advance and announce it to the child
  • Task such as cleaning own room and arranging toys may fetch higher token value for example Rs 20 or $20
  • Create enough excitement along with a stricter rules to earn the token
  • Allow your child to earn as much as he wish in a day.
  • The earned token will remain with him and let him accumulate the number of tokens.
  • Set a day or a date when your child can convert the tokens into actual currency from you and can spend it as per his wish.

Above method if follow religiously, will have the best effect on child’s mind set and he will start valuing and appreciating the things. This is completely non harming and honest method to rebuild the child’s mind set.

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The concept credit goes to the practicing psychologist Ms. Komal Baxi , for detail visit http://www.komalbaxi.com

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Personal Development Skill

Personal development skills are those essential skills that you need to develop for you to set personal goals and to achieve personal empowerment. You can build a strong and effective skill-set through personal development, and this will help you to make positive choices and right decisions in the future.

Personal development is life long process. People need to assess their skills and qualities, considering their aims in life and set goals in order to realise and maximise their potential. It helps you to identify the skills you need to set life goals which can enhance your employability prospects, raise your confidence and lead to a more fulfilling, higher quality life.  Plan to make relevant, positive and effective life choices and decisions for your future to enable personal empowerment. Although early life development and early formative experiences within the family, at school, etc. can help to shape us as adults, personal development should not stop later in life.

Steps for Personal Development:

  • Organising your time.
  • Change in specific behaviour
  • Learn new skills time to time

Organising Your Time:

If you are considering making changes in your life, finding additional time often poses a problem.  It could be that the changes you are thinking of making are to ensure you have extra time to:

  • Spend with your family.
  • Spend on things you enjoy doing.
  • Devote to your work.
  • Devote to your education.
  • Learning to say ‘no’ to jobs or requests that you feel are not your responsibility.
  • Learning to delegate – sharing jobs/tasks can be fun and will leave you with more time.
  • Making a ’to do’ list of tasks you need to do each day/week, ticking off tasks that you complete.
  • Giving up things you do not really want or need to do.
  • Identifying your high and low times of the day.  Everyone has a time when he/she feels more or less energetic.  Try to do the most demanding tasks when you have the greatest energy as you will do them more quickly, thereby releasing more time to spend on other things.

Change in specific behaviour:

We all are programmed to do certain things in a certain way. broadly this is know as a behaviour. Our behaviour changes as per the situations. However, there are come behaviours which are constant and almost become shadow of our personality.

You might consider these things while changing that particular behaviour which is holding you back from growth.

  • Identify the negative behaviour
  • Identify the triggers to that negative behaviour
  • Make a note of negative outcomes of such behaviour and relate it with positive behaviour
  • Think positive and Stay balanced in every approach
  • Remember no-one likes the negative behaviour

Learning a New Skill:

Learning a new skill will broaden the opportunities for you, at the same time it will empower you as an individual. There are many things that prevent people from learning new skills,  These might include:

• Lack of Confidence or Self-Esteem:  This is one of the greatest obstacles facing many individuals.  However, if this is a problem then ask yourself if there is anyone who would support and help you to take the first steps towards learning a new skill.  Often, once the first move is made then the greatest hurdle is overcome.  Confidence increases as you develop new skills.

• Financial Crunch:  You may see your financial situation as a barrier to developing new skills, this need not be the case.  The internet has lots of pages and tools that can help you develop specify skills.  There may be courses offered in local schools, colleges or universities which are free or offered at a reduced rate for people on a lower incomes.  Distance-learning courses allow you to study at home which can help to reduce the cost of learning.  There may exist trust funds or charities that offer grants for people developing new skills in your area.  It is also possible to learn a new skill with the aid of books from a library.  Also, voluntary work can provide an excellent opportunity for learning and developing new skills as can being a member of a local group or society.

• Family Commitments:  If you have family commitments that prevent you from having the time to learn a new skill, perhaps it is possible for you to enlist the help of a friend or family member to give you a few free hours weekly.  Colleges and universities offering vocational training courses may have free or subsidised crèche places.

Recording your Personal Development

It is often a good idea to keep a record of your personal development. By writing down key developments in your learning and development as and when they occur, you will be able to reflect on your successes at a later date. This reflection may well help to motivate you to learn more skills in the future.  Try keeping a learning log or journal as you develop your skills and knowledge.

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How to appear in Group Discussion and Personal Interview

How to appear for GD (Group Discussion)

Group discussion has been one of the most common and widely used technique  to eliminate the bellow average candidates during the job interview.

Human Resource managers are looking for smart, talented yet enough flexible candidate for the job, they use GD as a tool to measure the overall strengths and weaknesses of the participating candidates.

GD is the platform to assess following major skills and competencies:

* Analytical Skill
* Solution driven attitude
* Persistant efforts
* Communication Skill
* Convincing power
* Patient
* Respect for others views
* Promptness and quick grasping
* Subject knowledge
* Attitude & Self control
* Assertiveness

Focusing on these skills will ensure better performance during GD.

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